Are Throat Orgasms Real? Yes, and Here’s Why Some Women Orgasm While Giving Head
The human body is a conduit for sexual pleasure.
Are throat orgasms real?
Yes, yes, they are.
The first time I had a throat orgasm, I had no idea what was happening. What I did know was this — I was experiencing extreme pleasure from giving pleasure without being touched anywhere else — except my mouth.
Since that experience, I have had throat orgasms on a fairly regular basis. But it’s not something I can make happen on command.
For me, throat orgasms require a high level of arousal, which almost always begins by engaging in sexual activities other than cocksucking. Typically, before having a throat orgasm, I have already had several clitoral, g-spot, or cervical orgasms first — either from cunnilingus or penetrative sex.
In other words, my body has already been primed for pleasure before a throat orgasm is possible. But that’s not true for everyone. Some women can achieve throat orgasms without having sex at all!
You may have noticed that the tissue in the mouth is very similar to the tissue in the vagina. And it’s not unusual for the mouth to become extremely dampened as the body becomes sexually aroused. This is not at all surprising, considering that the human body responds to stimulation in a gazillion different ways—one of those responses being a full body orgasm whose epicenter is the throat.
How does this phenomenon occur exactly? Technically, I don’t know because there is very little scientific research on the subject.
But I have a theory…
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The cricopharyngeus is a sphincter muscle located within the esophagus (the tube connecting the throat to the stomach). This muscle prevents food from refluxing after it’s been swallowed. Consequently, the upper esophageal sphincter is contracted most of the time but relaxes to allow food to pass through.
During the act of fellatio, the giver must consciously relax the throat to receive the full length of a penis or other phallic object. We lay folks like to call this deep-throating.
For some, like myself, there is a pleasure point beyond the uvula, within the cricopharyngeus portion of the esophagus, that causes orgasm to occur when stimulated. Others may experience varying degrees of pleasure in other regions of the mouth. This makes sense when you consider that the tongue is highly sensitive and flecked with taste buds.
But as you know, orgasms are a domino effect. A series of triggering events need to occur for it to happen. So it’s not enough for pleasure points in the mouth or throat to be stimulated. The sensation needs to find a pathway to the pussy.
The road map between the throat and the pussy.
Contrary to popular belief, the spinal cord is not responsible for all sensations. Yes, the spinal cord is responsible for the feeling receptors on the skin's surface, including the vulva and clitoris. But the spinal cord has nothing to do with sensation in the cervix and uterus.
And in my experience, throat orgasms involve the cervix and the uterus. That means, to have a throat orgasm, the throat must send a signal to these inner sex organs. But how can that happen if the spinal cord doesn’t run point? The vagus nerve.
“The vagus nerve is the longest nerve of the autonomic nervous system and is one of the most important nerves in the body.” — Dr. Richard N. Fogoros
The vagus nerve is big and long, basically running from the base of the brain, then snaking down the neck and into the chest and abdominal cavity. This nerve is responsible for regulating your heartbeat, keeping the gastrointestinal track running properly, and ensuring that all the internal organs do what they’re supposed to do.
But the vagus nerve has another critical job — it connects the mouth and throat to the cervix and uterus.
Two body parts that are more alike than you think.
Although it is not often discussed, the throat and the vagina are pretty similar. In fact, the vocal cords are oval-shaped with pointed ends, just like the opening to the vagina. And it is not unusual to experience problems or pleasure in the throat and the vagina simultaneously.
For example, phlegm in the throat may be accompanied by a not-so-normal vaginal discharge. Aversely, vibrations in the mouth and throat can cause spontaneous orgasms in the cervix or uterus.
And here’s the rub — the origin of these vibrations in the mouth and throat do not have to involve a penis (or the phallic object of your choice). Some women experience throat orgasms by simply generating deep guttural sounds that trigger vibrations in the vagus nerve. Other women can cum from singing or brushing their teeth.
I suspect this might work better with an electric toothbrush — just saying.
So basically, some women orgasm while giving head because the vagus nerve might bridge the gap between the mouth and the groin. And because the body is a conduit for sexual pleasure. It’s literally wired from head to foot to feel EVERYTHING.
My best advice for creating the perfect conditions for a throat orgasm is to relax. Don’t think about it too much. Don’t try to make it happen. Just relax and enjoy all there is to enjoy. And who knows — you might be able to make some beautiful music that makes your throat and your pussy sing!
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