How to Love Soft Penis S*x: Feel Good Ways to Indulge a Flaccid Cock

Pleasure is still available whether there’s a hard d*ck in the room or not.

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He trails his index finger along my side, creating a zigzagging pattern of gooseflesh from breast to thigh.

My body is always responsive to his touch. It has been since our encounter.

He’s an attentive lover — narrating his every move to ensure I feel safe and comfortable. Taking his time, prioritizing pleasure above orgasm. Discovering my erogenous zones, one by one.

We’ve been enjoying a lovely intermission following a round of exquisite. And now I am ready for more.

Settling into my favorite position. Ana Belén’s Lia (Bolero) plays softly in the background as I straddle him. His penis is resting between my labia, pressed firmly against my clit. He holds onto my hips as I begin to make slow circles in time with the music.

But his penis refuses to rise to the occasion.

This is not unusual.

The refractory period (a.k.a. the resolution phase) is the rest after an orgasm, where the genitals and body recover from intense sexual stimulation. This phase tends to be longer for penises than vaginas.

But I don’t mind.

I happen to love flaccid penises! Because penetration is only one kind of sex. There are also plenty of other ways to be penetrated that do not involve a penis.