How to Make Big Penis Sex More Comfortable

For the giver, and the receiver.

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My very first king-size cock experience was uncomfortable — and it never got better.

I was young and very inexperienced. Though my sex-mate was a bit older, he was also pretty green around the gills. And the fact that he was oblivious to his size didn’t help either.

The sex before the sex, also known as foreplay, was fantastic. But the PIV portion sucked (absolutely no pun intended).

It wasn’t excruciating, but it was unpleasant enough that I could never relax or get comfortable. It was as if my body was in a perpetual state of tension, and as luck would have it, he wasn’t one for quickies.

I felt utterly disembodied whenever we would have sex. In other words, I zoned out so I wouldn’t have to be present for the discomfort.

If I could travel back in time and have a pep talk with my younger self, I would tell her that sex shouldn’t hurt unless that’s how you like it. And that it’s okay to change the channel in the middle.

I would also tell her that her pleasure is her responsibility and that she needs to advocate for it — at all costs. And that using her words will help her vagina to be more receptive. #ForFACTS

And I’d also give her the following tips on making big penis sex more comfortable. I think you’ll find them helpful too: