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Puzzle Perfect Sex: Tailored Spaces, Furniture, and Props for Every Body!

Make sure your pieces fit, so you do both do too!

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Stacey Herrera
Aug 21, 2023
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My partner and I both have high beds. I'm talking bend-at-the-waist high, which makes sense since we value a good night's sleep.

I am an exceptional mattress picker, and I chose his and mine. I was mindful of selecting a good mattress for sleep and sex. I was thinking about the all-the-way-on-the-bed positions at the time, but in hindsight, I should have considered the edge-of-the-bed positions too —butterfly, doggy style, bedside wheelbarrow, t-stand, etc.

*SIGH*

Our beds would be fine if we were a strictly missionary or lazy evening type of couple, but while neither of us is super kinky, we enjoy a little flare.

Bodies and furniture can inhibit the get down — classic square peg / round hole puzzle type of stuff. When it comes to sex, sometimes the geometry is a bit complex.

The right furniture can be a game-changer for how two bodies sync up. Sometimes, you need to raise, lower, or level out a few things to get the perfect angle.

Catch my drift? 😉

Customizable Bedframes

Have you ever been with someone where you're all legs, and they're all torso? Or vice versa?

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