This Is a PSA… to Remind You That It’s Okay to Desire The Kind of Sex YOU Like

It’s also okay to act on that desire with consenting adults.

In collaboration with Roberta Sant'Anna

Sexual shame is in style. It has been for a very long time. Although many of us are flexing and fighting for our rights. There’s still a lot of resistance from the powers that be.

But this is a reminder that it’s okay to desire the kind of sex YOU like.

Regardless of your gender identity, gender expression, and sexual orientation — you are allowed to have desire. And it’s also okay to act on that desire with consenting adults.

You can express your sexuality however you want to.

If you’re into kink — find a playmate and do your thing.

If you get off on romance and sensuality — pull up your favorite playlist (or mine), light a candle, and get your authentic vanilla freak on.

And if the kind of sex you like is no sex at all, that is perfectly fine, too.

Feel free to feast from the sexual buffet:

Porn. Erotica. Masturbation. Dry humping. Intercourse. Outercourse. Cunnilingus. Felatio. Fingers. Mouths. And assholes too.

Whatever brand of sex you enjoy — do your thing!

Sex is normal, natural, and NECESSARY.

Even though life is still sexually transmitted, sexual shame is still a thing — I get it. I know it can be hard to feel confident when you feel judged. And if that’s the experience you’re having, I’m sorry.

But know this — whatever you’re into — there is someone out there who is into it too. And that’s the wholehearted truth.

If you are struggling to find your peeps — keep the porch light on.

Join Meetup, Fetlife, or Adultfriend Finder. There are plenty of other sites out there, just ask Google (in incognito 🥸 because big brother might be watching j/s).

Trust me, there is something for everyone, even you — pinky swear. ❤