This is Why Sexual Chemistry Matters More Than Physical Attraction

It’s science — so chemistry comes first.

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The moment he laid eyes on her, he knew he had to have her.

Her form intoxicated him. The curve of her hips and the arc of her back. She was shaped like a coke bottle with big tits, thick thighs, a fat ass, and a tiny waist. The way her long dark hair framed her round face added to her mystery. Her full lips were painted blood-stain red. In contrast, her dark smoky eyeshadow brightened her tea-colored irises.

She was the kind of woman he fantasized about in his teens. But, of course, he’s always been drawn to the pin-up model type. And she seemed to walk straight out of the centerfold.

They met online, and this was their very first date.

As she strolled toward him, he felt his back stiffen — he was nervous. What if she didn’t like him? She was gorgeous; what if he wasn’t good enough for her?

Lucky for him — he appeared to be wrong because, after dinner, she asked him to come home with her.

At this point, he was pretty confident he would get laid.

Back at her place, they made out on the couch. Which was mostly okay but a bit messy — for a girl that was so cute, she sure was juicy-mouthed. But he rolled with it because things were heating up — fast.

Before long, they were butt-ass-naked in her bed.

She was just as beautiful unclothed as she was fully dressed. But for some reason, his body was taking forever to come online. So he decided to slow things down and strike up a conversation. But she stuck her tongue in his mouth every time he tried to speak.

It was nice to be desired, but his body was not on board — which made zero sense.

Here was a woman who appeared to walk straight out of his dreams and into reality. But there was something about her that didn’t do it for him. And although he loved hungry kisses, he was having a hard time getting into it.

But he still kept trying.

They had sex. Not great sex. Not memorable sex. Just sex.

His erection was unreliable, but he made it work. He wasn’t sure if he believed her when she said she enjoyed herself — because he didn’t feel the same way.

How could something that seemed so right go so wrong?

CHEMISTRY.

Good sex is about so much more than parts that fit together.

This is not just my opinion — it’s science.

I would argue that good sex demands chemistry — first and foremost. And in the hierarchy of love, sex, and romance — chemistry is top tier.

Let me break it down for you…