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On sharing a life, responsibilities, and sexual maintenance
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How You See Your Body Follows You Into Bed
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Their Touch Shouldn't Disgust You
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Your Body Is Here, but Are You?
On good sex, long-term love, and staying in the room
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The Autopilot Relationship Trap
On telepathy, automation, and why we stop being curious about our partners
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Are We Replacing Physical Touch with Our Screens?
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Why Does My Partner Piss Me off and Make Me Horny AF at the Same Time?.
Annoying habits sometimes spark desire in long-term relationships. This post explores the unexpected connection between irritation and arousal.
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A New Person Can Make You Feel Desired. But History Makes You Feel Known.
The sexual do-over is a myth. This post explores the hidden costs of trading history for novelty in longterm romantic relationships.
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How Long Will You Wait for That Invoice?
On how past relationships shape the way we receive love.
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What If Wanting Them Back Is a Survival Instinct Instead of Love?
Listen now | On the difference between being missed and being needed.
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