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The Autopilot Relationship Trap
On telepathy, automation, and why we stop being curious about our partners
21 hrs ago
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Stacey Herrera
15:06
Are We Replacing Physical Touch with Our Screens?
On desire, connection, and stroking screens
Jun 3
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Stacey Herrera
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22:22
May 2026
Why Does My Partner Piss Me off and Make Me Horny AF at the Same Time?.
Annoying habits sometimes spark desire in long-term relationships. This post explores the unexpected connection between irritation and arousal.
May 27
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Stacey Herrera
3
17:24
A New Person Can Make You Feel Desired. But History Makes You Feel Known.
The sexual do-over is a myth. This post explores the hidden costs of trading history for novelty in longterm romantic relationships.
May 20
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Stacey Herrera
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12:47
How Long Will You Wait for That Invoice?
On how past relationships shape the way we receive love.
May 13
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Stacey Herrera
1
15:25
What If Wanting Them Back Is a Survival Instinct Instead of Love?
Listen now | On the difference between being missed and being needed.
May 6
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Stacey Herrera
2
15:41
April 2026
Are You Actually Honest About the Kind of Truth You Can Handle?
On longing, and the difference between wanting sex and needing a witness.
Apr 29
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Stacey Herrera
2
18:38
Married Cheater ISO Sex. What If You Just Need to Feel Seen?
On longing, and the difference between wanting sex and needing a witness.
Apr 22
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Stacey Herrera
3
19:44
What If the Sex You're Mourning Wasn't as Good as You Remember?
The used-to's might have you misremembering your sex life.
Apr 15
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Stacey Herrera
2
13:48
What if Sexual Frustration Isn’t About Sex (Most of the time)?
But if it's not about the sex, what's really going on?
Apr 8
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Stacey Herrera
2
1
20:54
Sometimes Lonely People Do Stupid Things like Cheat on the Person They Love
Thinking it's always about lust is keeping us stuck.
Apr 1
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Stacey Herrera
3
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10:08
March 2026
The Version of You They Can Handle
We say we value authenticity... until it makes them uncomfortable.
Mar 25
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Stacey Herrera
2
17:20
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