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Married Cheater ISO Sex. What If You Just Need to Feel Seen?
On longing, and the difference between wanting sex and needing a witness.
Apr 22
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Stacey Herrera
2
19:44
What If the Sex You're Mourning Wasn't as Good as You Remember?
The used-to's might have you misremembering your sex life.
Apr 15
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Stacey Herrera
1
13:48
What if Sexual Frustration Isn’t About Sex (Most of the time)?
But if it's not about the sex, what's really going on?
Apr 8
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Stacey Herrera
2
1
20:54
Sometimes Lonely People Do Stupid Things like Cheat on the Person They Love
Thinking it's always about lust is keeping us stuck.
Apr 1
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Stacey Herrera
3
1
10:08
March 2026
The Version of You They Can Handle
We say we value authenticity... until it makes them uncomfortable.
Mar 25
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Stacey Herrera
2
17:20
Romantic Love and Sexual Exclusivity Are Two Very Different Things
We conflated the two. That was our first mistake.
Mar 20
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Stacey Herrera
3
1
Can Your Relationship Handle Being the End-All-Be-All?
Rethinking the role romantic relationships are meant to play.
Mar 18
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Stacey Herrera
2
19:38
Financial Stress Is F*ckng With Your Sex Life
Money pressure doesn’t stay in your bank account.
Mar 11
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Stacey Herrera
3
1
27:27
The 38% Your Partner Doesn't Know About Your Sex Life
On tolerating, withholding, and not saying what you want.
Mar 4
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Stacey Herrera
2
21:05
February 2026
What If You're the One with the Low Sex Drive?
The gap between wanting sex less and what we make it mean.
Feb 25
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Stacey Herrera
1
23:16
5 Causes of Sexlessness in Otherwise Loving Relationships
You're not fighting. But you're still not doing it.
Feb 18
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Stacey Herrera
3
30:22
If the Only Thing Missing Was Sex, Would That Be Enough to Stay?
You can survive without sex. The question is... do you want to?
Feb 16
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Stacey Herrera
2
2
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