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What If Wanting Them Back Is a Survival Instinct Instead of Love?
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What If Wanting Them Back Is a Survival Instinct Instead of Love?

On the difference between being missed and being needed.

The shit hit the fan, then they bounced. Love wasn’t enough. Maybe you tried to work it out. They probably tried too. Or not.

Either way, it ended.

They moved on. And you did too. Mostly.

Days stretched into weeks, months, maybe even years. But then they came back. Because they finally realized what they had. At least that’s what they said. And you want to believe it.

But what if love didn’t bring them home?

Sometimes reconciliation is more pragmatic than that.

Maybe they just ran the numbers, and the math just didn’t math the same without you.

There’s a big difference between being missed and being needed.

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In this week’s episode, I’m talking about the difference between reconciliation and survival instinct. And why it matters which one is on the table.

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