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Why You Can’t Let Go in Bed with the Person You Love
On identity, shame, and playing the role
14 hrs ago
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Stacey Herrera
25:24
Your Body Is Here, but Are You?
On good sex, long-term love, and staying in the room
Jun 17
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Stacey Herrera
2
18:36
The Autopilot Relationship Trap
On telepathy, automation, and why we stop being curious about our partners
Jun 10
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Stacey Herrera
1
2
15:06
Are We Replacing Physical Touch with Our Screens?
On desire, connection, and stroking screens
Jun 3
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Stacey Herrera
3
1
22:22
Why Does My Partner Piss Me off and Make Me Horny AF at the Same Time?.
Annoying habits sometimes spark desire in long-term relationships. This post explores the unexpected connection between irritation and arousal.
May 27
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Stacey Herrera
3
17:24
How Come We Never Talk About the Emotional Part of Erectile Dysfunction?
Listen now (25 mins) | because shame is a hater.
Nov 5, 2025
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Stacey Herrera
4
24:30
Do Your Kids Need to Know About the Affair?
Privacy. Secrecy. Transparency. The lines are blurred.
Oct 22, 2025
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Stacey Herrera
7
2
10:51
Is Performing Pleasure Affecting Your Sex Life?
Listen now | You're faking it. He believes you. Now what?
Oct 15, 2025
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Stacey Herrera
2
1
7:54
Is Their Sexual Satisfaction Really That Important to You?
Listen now | When "I just want them to feel good" is really about needing proof that you're good in bed.
Oct 8, 2025
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Stacey Herrera
3
8:28
On Disembodied Sex, Main Character Energy, and Why Presence Matters More than Performance
Because who wants to be a side piece in the bedroom anyway?
Sep 24, 2025
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Stacey Herrera
5
3
8:18
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