Sex IRL

Sex IRL

Home
Notes
How to Give Amazing Head
Herpes Book
Archive
About
Is Doggy Style a Way to Avoid Intimacy and Connection?
Distraction, detachment, and the meanings we bring to bed.
 • 
Stacey Herrera
Queefing Unveiled: The Awkward and Sometimes Hilarious Soundtrack to Intimacy
A not-so-silent moment that spawns a whole lot of overthinking.
 • 
Stacey Herrera
Bedrooms are for Two Things: Sleeping and F*cking
An argument for evicting your distractions from the boudoir.
 • 
Stacey Herrera
Do you want to be better at sex?
Ask what they want, then do what they say.
 • 
Stacey Herrera
Sexual Seasons: Why Changes in Sex Drive Doesn't Mean the End of Sex
How to Navigate (and Celebrate) the Evolution of Sexuality After 40
 • 
Stacey Herrera
Mature Male Sexuality: 5 Silver Fox Myths You Should Forget
Because everything you think you know about male sexuality might be wrong.
 • 
Stacey Herrera
How Do I Tell Them I Have Herpes?
A straightforward guide to having "The Talk."
 • 
Stacey Herrera
May I Ask You a Question? 🤔
Just trying to get a better sense of who's in our community.
 • 
Stacey Herrera
This Is a PSA… to Remind You That It’s Okay to Desire The Kind of Sex YOU Like
It’s also okay to act on that desire with consenting adults.
 • 
Stacey Herrera
1
Buying a Vibrator? Read This First
A quick and dirty guide to buying the perfect vibrator.
 • 
Stacey Herrera
The Real Reason Sex Intimacy Wanes in LTRs
The slow fade of intimacy can be a hard pill to swallow.
 • 
Stacey Herrera
11 Ways to Reignite the Spark in Long Term Relationships
The effort is worth the investment.
 • 
Stacey Herrera
Aftercare That People with Penises Enjoy
5 tips to put the bada bing after the bada boom.
 • 
Stacey Herrera
2
Are You Playing Safe with Your Sex Toys?
Sometimes sharing isn’t caring.
 • 
Stacey Herrera
Sex IRL
Sex IRL
A publication about sexuality, pleasure, and desire for people over 40.
Recommendations
View all 8
The Sex Guides
The Sex Guides
The Sex Guides
The G-Spot by Gigi Engle
The G-Spot by Gigi Engle
Gigi Engle
Great Sex Guidance
Great Sex Guidance
Michael Castleman
Filthy, Beautiful Sex
Filthy, Beautiful Sex
Leja & Luka
Living in Light
Living in Light
Caitlin Grace
© 2025 The Sensuality Project LLC
Privacy ∙ Terms ∙ Collection notice
Start writingGet the app
Substack is the home for great culture